There are all kinds of reasons for this person to get out this relationship. She needs to learn her lesson and not sleep with people indiscriminately, but rather first ensure they are unmarried, and then build a sustainable relationship at the non-physical level so that it will last. However, you are right. The situation has gotten out of hand. Basically the only way you will be able to get her out of this situation will be from the abuse angle.
I blocked it out. None of that mattered to me. I knew he had a wife. I let him get on with what he needed to do.
My married man's wife is pregnant! What should I do?
He made time for me when he could and I always loved spending time with him. He took me to Paris for our first year anniversary. It was a short trip.
The thought, the love, the commitment, it was there. I was madly in love. We dated for six years. As time went on, I adjusted to my new normal. Then it took a turn. My period was late. I kept going to the bathroom to check, hours turned into days and a sinking feeling grew in my stomach. I pretended I had a lot on at work. I needed to think. When the doctor confirmed I was pregnant, I felt sick. It hit me like a wall. We had our own routine that had turned into our world, but we never discussed a future together.
But, that changed when I found out I was pregnant. I wanted the baby.
Dating a married man and his wife is pregnant
I could have got support from my family and made ends meet financially and done it on my own. But how awful would that have been? The child would be his too; it would look like him and be his own flesh and blood.
There was no answer but to have an abortion. I went to the clinic with a girlfriend who sat in the waiting room while I went in. Tears ran down my face as we walked back outside to her car. She stayed that night with me to check I was OK. I said I was. I never knew what I wanted until this point.
I know that sounds selfish. I could never have what I truly wanted with him. Login first Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended! ORG - we actively monitor for copyright theft.
Sitemap My married man's wife is pregnant! What should I do? I have tried to end our relationship but I always find myself drawn to him. A friend of mine said that I should tell his wife about our relationship. I am so confused , I know that she deserves to know what we are doing. I am in the same position.
Iv been having an affair with a married man or about 18 months now. This weekend i learnt his wife is prgnant. I know he would never have left her but it still hurts, especially since we were trying for our own baby.Pep Dating A MARRIED MAN, His PREGNANT WIFE Puts Her On Blast (Details)
I just dont know what to do. I love him so much and he does me. I know your thinking that he doesnt, but we talk everyday, everytime he tells me he loves me. He calls me maybe 6 times a day and although he lives about miles away we see each other for at least 3 days once a month. He rode a bike the miles just to tell me as he couldnt do it on the phone. Do i do the right thing and leave him to get on woth his life.
Im under no illusions, i know things will change once the baby comes along although he has already said that it wont. He still plans to come see me and has even planned his next trip.