How To Not Give A Fuck is the paradoxical problem-free philosophy challenging you to fearless experimentation and self-discovery. So my ex gf of 2 years is now dating a girl. I'm not really surprised but I feel really weird and uneasy.. I don't know if I'm over thinking it. I used to love her, like really love her.
If you keep talking to her, itl only drag out these feels. What the fukc are you still doing talking to her? You set yourself up for failure son. Stop talking to her you idiot! Srs, thats it, poof! Dont show an once of sadness and act like your happy all the time, she will die inside.
At most, keep her as a phuckbuddy but dont ever catch feelings, she is now just another sloot. Yes and your situation is nothing new. I did the same thing you did and kept contact like a dumbass because I thought she still loved me. I loved her for sure though and still do actually. But just like your story she monkey branched 2 months later and then came back at me about 5 months later after he fukked it up somehow. He was actually an upgrade from me imo. Go no contact and move on it's been 10 months since we broke up kept in contact for now it's been 2 months nc..
Its a possibility that shes lieying about fkn him just to see what you would do. Go no contact and never talk to her ever again. NC sucks but trust me it will be even worse if you get back together, this was posted in the NC thread.
Originally Posted by unknown The relationship is never the same, because you're always gonna be on the edge of your seat. Don't listen to that crap about, both parties have to have changed, and treat it like a new relationship. Yeah, there are cases of that, but that's after like years of separation, and do we really even know if it's true love on both ends, or settling from one or both parties involved after years of dating, and failing.My Ex Is Dating Someone New: Are We Done For Good?
Just going back to what's comfortable. Verbatim, this is what usually happens.
I think we can all tell you about the anxiety and over analyzing every single text, call, interaction, paranoia is through the roof. You can't function properly through the day, because you're thinking about your ex in a very unhealthy way.
It's like the feeling of NC, where you think about them non stop, but worse. You "have" them back, but it feels like she could slip the rug from underneath you at ANY second, minute, hour, day, week, month, instead of not having her at all, and just having to deal with it. It's easier to not do anything, and get over her, then play mental gymnastics, and try not to "mess up" this second chance.
And no matter what, you still don't know her TRUE intentions as to why you guys are back. You're always gonna think she came back because her new guy dumped her. She needs you emotionally for the time being, etc. It's seriouisly not a way to live, man. Does someone else have her attention? Should I give it a few hours? Why hasn't she called to come over? Is it another guy that she really wants, that doesn't want her?
My ex girlfriend is now dating a girl
It's torture for the mind, and you could go bald from all the stress your mind puts you through lol. Man, you just got to let it go. Don't be like those people who keep clinging on to something that won't work.
You're 21 years old, you have plenty of time to meet other people who are much better. Stop deluding yourself about this girl. You had great times and bad times, and now, it's time to let go. It won't help you to keep clinging onto something that is over. You need to move on and learn from this relationship in your next and not let it drag you down. It hurts and it's hard at first, but months of no contact will do you much good in getting over her. It will hurt you to see her happy with another guy cause you will keep wishing it was you and not him.
Do the smart thing. Don't give in if she starts crying or begging you to be her friend, you need to be selfish about what you're feeling and do it for yourself. Don't be an idiot about this.
Pick up an extra hobby now that you have more free time and you know you will have more free time. Besides working out more, I picked up playing the piano. There's a lot of great things you can do to help you ease the pain. Originally Posted by Oatmeal Originally Posted by overMotivated.
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My advice is to block them both the second the status appears. Is she prettier than me? Does she have a better job? Does she have more friends?
So stop comparing and start blocking, because she might be looking at your profile and thinking the same thoughts, and neither of you deserves to feel inferior.
If you want to believe that they love you the most, then go with that. You just know it. You can feel it in you bones. My advice is to regard her with the same level of interest and companionship that you would anyone who shares a similar life experience.
This is kinda valid.