I keep that side of myself hidden from most people—along with many other aspects of my personality—and it can be difficult for me to date because nobody really sees me inside, just my appearance. The same with our friends. But a year age difference seems to be very controversial. As much as I hate to admit it, sometimes it is hard for me to remain in the judgement free zone sigh. However, his spirit age is seven, and mine is 32, so. What have his previous relationships been like?
Why would you want some old bish. Would you rather have the newest model car or some old rusty one? Originally Posted by Devian. Strong creeps with no lives. I bet you're gay. There's a difference between "location" and "nationality". OP must like men. Guess the OP's girl dropped him for a guy in his late 20s. Cynical Optimist, Extreme Moderate. But most of these guys I see with some of these girls just hang around high schools and colleges all day and still go to high school parties, hold a terrible job and have absolutely no direction with their life at all.
Originally Posted by SaviorSix. I know a guy thats 31 and hasnt dated a woman older than 24 ever. Hes constantly got a girl too I think 18 is a bit young obviously.
30 year old guy dating 18 year old
My buddy is 36 and is dating a 19 year old. Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. Wilde Send a private message.
That's too bi an age gap at that young an ae in my view. The general rule I'm told the French invented this is an appropriate age is half the man's age plus 7 years. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Hierophant Send a private message.
I agree with Wilde. IMO when a grown man involves himself with teenagers it suggests he is looking to take advantage of lesser experienced person Can spare us all the 'mature for her age' drivel Either way, were I her father I'd want to kick the shit out of you!
Donna Send a private message. HikerVeg Send a private message. This falls under catergory of "if you have to ask, then you already know answer. Hgfit12 Send a private message. I dated a 34 year old when I was At the time, I didn't see anything wrong with it. But now I am 29 and see it totally different.
At my age then, although I was mature for my age, I hadn't experienced enough, lived enough, gone through enough, to be on an adults level. And personally, more than likely, he doesn't see anything serious with you.
"I'm 19, he's 32. Is it weird that we're dating?"
I don't say that in offense. I say it bc I see things like that now. ThisGal Send a private message. So, I don't know, I'm on the fence here because IMO, in the bedroom is where a lot of us seem to carry out things that are going on in our psyche and if you need a man to dominate and control you for whatever reasons - then that's your decision. Deep down, there is probably a psychological reason to why I have always dated older men.
But I am now old enough to endure it. My boyfriend is 40 and I'm I don't even think about the age difference.
But I truly always have been more mature than most for my age. Him and I are on the same level and we work well together.
“I’m 18 and My Boyfriend is 30”
Life will beat you down, drag you through hell, break your heart, inspire you, make you change your mind times on your beliefs, etc.
I have just felt that I've gotten more grounded with who I am within the past 3 years! Barrington Send a private message. I have to say tho. Im 26, and im dating a 19 year old. But mainly because women in my age group such as yourself are all dating 40 year olds. So how can you shame men for dating women ? What adds to the insanity is that when i was , the women in my age group were dating men To say the only reason a man would date a 19 year old would be to take advantage of them or because they are childish is ignorant and judgemental.
From my personal experience, women in our age group pay attention to guys way older than us for the first 30 years of our life, so perhaps a guy in his late 20s just wants the chick who pays attention to them in return.
A 19 year old may change over time, and may have some ignorance.I'm 17 & I'm Dating a 30 Year Old!!!! - #WheresMyTea MiniTalk Session
But whose to say the difference in wisdom is no different than the difference in wisdom of those who are in thier 20s with 30s? Or 30s with 40s? The gaining of wisdom does not cease whether you are in a relationship or not, so a 19 year old may mature into a state in which they themselves can decide whether or not to leave the relationship. Nothing is permenant and there are no rules which govern love.
Maybe you all have the wisdom of age confused with bitterness, cynicism, and judgementality.